Event, Wedding & Private Party Venue in Highlands, NJ

Interior of a rustic wedding reception with a long table set for guests, decorated with white cloth chairs and flowers, with a large illuminated 'LOVE' sign on a brick wall and string lights creating a warm ambiance.

• WHY Choose us? •

Looking for the perfect event venue in Highlands, NJ? The rustic, newly renovated Mule Barn Tavern offers a charming and versatile space for private parties, weddings, and special occasions near Sandy Hook, New Jersey. Whether you’re hosting a bridal shower, birthday celebration, or graduation party, our venue combines timeless character with modern amenities—making it one of the most sought-after wedding venues in Highlands, NJ.

We provide flexible food and beverage packages to suit every taste and budget, ensuring your guests enjoy a truly memorable dining experience. With a dedicated private event manager and an experienced staff, your celebration will run seamlessly from start to finish. Customize your event with personal touches—unique décor, tailored table settings, and even your own DJ or live music—to create the perfect atmosphere for your special day.

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• Host Your Next Private Party, Wedding, or Event at The Mule Barn Tavern •

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• Catering options •

APPETIZER PACKAGE

A pizza topped with arugula and shaved cheese on a wooden table.

pizzas

Traditional
Margherita
Portobello
Burrata
Buffalo Chicken
Blanco
Meat Lovers
Light House
Caesar Salad Pie
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Buffalo chicken wings with a side of ranch dressing and lettuce on a white rectangular plate.

OVEN ROASTED Wings

Buffalo
Teriyaki
Sweet Thai Chil
Lemon Pepper
Honey Ginger Sriracha
Garlic Parmesan
BBQ
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Three tacos filled with fried chicken, shredded lettuce, diced tomatoes, chopped onions, and drizzled with white sauce, garnished with radish slices on a white rectangular plate.

AppETIZERS

Fried Mozzarella
Pretzels
Stuffed Pepper Eggrolls
Calamari + $3 PP
Mini Meatballs
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Add-ons

Ceviche $5 PP

Shrimp Cocktail $3 PP

Charcuterie Platters (Price tbt):

Cheeseboard

International & Domestic Cheeses, Fresh Fruit, & Crackers

Mediterranean Platter

Marinated Olives, Bruschetta, Fresh Mozzarella, Roasted Red Peppers & Proscuitto

BUILD YOUR PLATE!

Lobster tail with cheesy topping, drizzled with balsamic glaze, served with potatoes and vegetables, on a white plate with side salad and bowl of soup in the background.

SEAFOOD

Pesto Crusted Salmon
Shrimp Scampi
Lemon Baked Cod
Crab Cakes + $5 PP
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Sliced grilled steak with onions, pickles, and barbecue sauce on a wooden surface.

BEEF

Short Rib
Smoked Brisket
Grilled Chimichurri Tenderloin Tips
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Roast turkey garnished with herbs, surrounded by roasted vegetables and garlic, on a white platter, with autumn leaves in the background.

CHICKEN

Chicken Marsala
Chicken Parmesan
Chicken Francese
Roasted Airline Chicken
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Plate of cooked penne pasta with cherry tomato halves and sliced green onions, garnished with fresh herbs.

PASTA

Rigatoni Vodka
Baked Ziti
Cavatelli & Broccoli
Tortellini & Alfredo
Baked Mac & Cheese
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Menu offering appetizer packages starting at $250, with options for minimum 50 adults. Includes soft drinks, coffee, and tea. Itemized selections include sliders (pulled pork, buffalo chicken, cheeseburger), pizzas (gluten free and traditional styles), oven-roasted wings (buffalo, teriyaki, sweet Thai chili, lemon pepper, honey ginger sriracha, garlic parmesan, BBQ), and add-ons like ceviche, shrimp cocktail, charcuterie platters, cheeseboard, Mediterranean platter, and other toppings.

Buffet package menu offering a minimum of 50 adults with soft drinks, coffee, and tea, costing $65 per person or $35 per child, with a list of salad, side, entrée options including seafood, beef, chicken, and pasta, and an email contact for inquiries.

Brunch buffet menu offering various food options with a minimum of 50 adults, including soft drinks, coffee, and tea, along with a fee starting at $250. The menu lists options for breakfast items, salads, proteins, and pasta, with choices for each category. The menu is printed on a black and white background with decorative lines and different fonts.